I have roughly about four months to prepare for my wedding and we have decided to get a wedding coordinator that can help us so that we will not be stressed out with all the wedding preparation and I think it is also a worthy investment so that I can be a bride-chilla and not a bride-zilla. The first thing that you need to do is think of the theme of the wedding because from there everything else follows like the venue of the ceremony and reception, wedding invitation, bridal gown, wedding cake and the decoration; you must have a wedding theme to make other decisions easier. Although many encourage brides today to have do-it-yourself wedding invites, my wedding coordinator advised me that it is best to get it done by an expert because not only do we have little time but having the invites done by an expert guarantees you that the wedding invitation wording is appropriate not just for the event but for your wedding theme as well. Aside from the wedding invites, you also need to have good photos and video because these things will all be what is left of your wedding after the event is done, thus it is best to get a good photographer and videographer because your memorabilia for your wedding lie in their hands. Finally, you need to hire very good entertainers because as what my wedding coordinator told me, there are only two things that the guests can remember on your wedding, and it is not even how beautiful the bride and the bridal gown were but it is how good the food was and how much they enjoyed the entertainers.